It is the ceremony that the betrothal gift originally the go-between comes and goes both houses, exchanges the joining delivered item and promises the marriage of both houses.But, recently, both houses in one hall get together in woman’s house, go-between’s house or the hotel etc, the summary betrothal gift which exchanges the joining delivered item increases.
When (* just both house meeting is done, this)
Decide because of the betrothal gift
As for betrothal gift ceremony of both houses.While respecting the opinion of the mutual house, those where it does are the point.Here first, opinion of both houses is adjusted, the item which should the pickup was done
□ day and time, the place is decided
Is the □ go-between raised?
Is the number of □ joining delivered items how done?
It delivers the □ family book?
It decides concerning □ joining payment and the betrothal gift return
Fitting the dress of □ both house
Verification of advance of the □ day
You adhere to the day handle of the betrothal gift?
If it is the house that, it does the betrothal gift, the expectation which naturally is prejudice even in the day handle.There is no prejudice in the cover ri, because the te when the parent makes the air is many, knowing the meaning of six shines well, if it chooses Daian and the friend pulling of holiday, there is no problem, probably will be.
The go-between is raised?
It does not limit to the betrothal gift, but the person who raises the go-between to wedding has decreased to 1.1%.As for the reason “especially necessity was not felt”, 86.0%.Because the corresponding marriage where the go-between mediates decreases, there is no necessity, seems the actual way.
where to place the betrothal？
implementation in the hotel where、some people say or wedding hall27.4％、that restaurant restaurant26.1％、woman’s home41.2％has become。but、looking at the woman’s home metropolitan area28.1％seems to be decreasing and。and、will be performed at home betrothal woman、the subsequent mess has a lot of people that restaurant and hotels。it should be noted、betrothal at home matchmaker is the situation in reality there is little。if the location of the betrothal is common following。
hotel-ceremony
in recent years、many of the betrothal ceremony and rented a room in hotel、there are a growing place that provides a betrothal gift pack。i would listen that flexibility that reserve the wedding place、will also be a good opportunity to show the wedding venue to the parent。
· restaurant restaurant
let’s select a restaurant with private room and restaurant。betrothal is a woman’s home、then、meal only to move…restaurant and restaurants close to home is also useful when you want it。
tak woman
the area is home to many women at the mainstream。simply、along with the simplification of the betrothal、tend outside betrothal is becoming stronger。
⇒ rules of dress／to do cost-sharing？
⇒ advanced or vocal message of the day of betrothal
⇒ things to prepare before betrothal
rules of dress is？
betrothal dress is generally「dress at least semi-」it is said、the most important thing is is to align the rating in the two families。 the kimono has a particular case、things fall apart but this is awkward and。it is better aligned to discuss in advance
his male-
color black or dark suits。white shirt、those formal tie as much as possible。
woman-person
suit or kimono、dress。especially since his mother is so happy to be the last chance to wear if you have a kimono。
father,
black tie or white to suit、dark suit。
-mother
visit wear、tomesode、suit, such as。let’s kimono is aligned so that a clear case in particular。
the cost will be borne by either？
the cost had been borne by the hospitality of the betrothal and the female side、since the informal betrothal now has increased、where the two families（transportation and accommodation fee）and dowry, such as that of、thought the burden of each、you are recommended to consult a good idea。meal after the betrothal is so often the case that the two families shared equally in。
⇒ coal tit of your betrothal／matchmaker／the location of the betrothal
⇒ advanced or vocal message of the day of betrothal
⇒ things to prepare before betrothal
advanced or vocal message of the day of betrothal
if you do not build the matchmaker facilitator is the father of the man will be。progression and vocal message listed here are examples only a general。if the ceremony is conducted in such as restaurant and、me so well to induce personnel、accordingly。
１ decorate the mahr、seating
mahr is arranged on the table or alcove。the first man to enter the room decoration、decoration and subsequently woman enters the room side、seating。women and family on the left toward the alcove、general male family members on the right。
２ greeting the father of the man
「this time、○○like（female name）and、of our○○（male name）we disclaim all very well to give me the trailing edge、thank you very much。with regard are、coal tit, so today you sure you want your、ceremony of betrothal、i will took place。although there is formal to the appetizer like matchmaker、today let me proceed by summary。thank you very much。」
３ pay mahr to the woman of the man
mother went to the male side mahr、mahr and family with a written、in front of women、back to the bow lightly seat。
the male father「this is○○（male name）there is a betrothal gift from。please accept it properly hear。」
４ the women look through the catalog、pass the ukesho
make sure the inventory is taken out women、father、circulated in the order of the mother、if you come back to return to the restored。female identity「thank you。i will receive several long。」
mother is the female side、transported to the decorative stand the mahr、in front of the men have instead ukesho、back to the bow lightly seat。make a ukesho male side。
５ to pay the mahr male side of the female side
mother is the woman went to the mahr、mahr and family with a written、in front of the male、back to the bow lightly seat。
father female side「this is○○（female name）there is a betrothal gift from。please accept it properly hear。」
６ the men look through the catalog、pass the ukesho
remove the check inventory for men、father、circulated in the order of the mother、if you come back to return to the restored。his male「thank you。i will receive several long。」
mother is the man、transported to the decorative stand the mahr、in front of the woman with the ukesho instead、back to the bow lightly seat。check the women side ukesho。
７ presentation or unveiling of commemorative engagement
exchange engagement rings and other souvenirs here、or、parents should also rejoice if you are replacing in advance to show off in front and。here、word、a greeting of thanks from the man himself。
「today we arranged a seat like this、thank you。thank you in the future。」
８ concluding greeting
male father「thank you very much for today。i was able to pay the betrothal safely while informal。thank you in the future。」
in contrast、attendance「thank you」
9 memorial after shooting、to dinner
⇒ coal tit of your betrothal／matchmaker／the location of the betrothal
⇒ rules of dress／to do cost-sharing？
⇒ things to prepare before betrothal
things to prepare before betrothal
the amount of mahr is on average19.3million yen has become。the main meaning of the mahr as follows:。
-mahr
dowry gift to the time of betrothal、luck、is a set of inventory。in the kanto area9material is common、arrange on top of a stand of one shiraki。the women also provided the male side。concept in the kansai area that men give to women the。5item、7item、9like material and々in、place on top of the table one by one each of betrothal。
charge and control zone（trace your favor）：that dowry。in the kansai region「kosode fee」。
onna kotobuki distillate（dried cuttlefish）：a bite bite about…as、as followed by a long margin、the meaning of
katsuo-section（dried bonito）：a symbol of male strength underground。
· noshi（works）：dried abalone、a symbol of longevity in those long stretched。
raw child-woman（kelp）：a symbol of prosperity descendants。
– suehiro（color laid）：plain hakusen。meaning of the divergent。
friend-gray hair（growing old together）：the meaning of terms in peace together until the white hair。
distillate kita-wife（yanagidaru）：the meaning of food and drink charge。
-catalog：those items and enter the number of mahr。
mahr is、can be purchased at department stores and internet。
betrothal gift shop.com
museum of betrothal
betrothal, dowry-returns
dowry is100million yen、50giving a general in the fog of a good number of ten thousand yen。kanto will return half、in the kansai region1return the assignment will most likely be。recently、give more and more people in a goods returns betrothal、51.1％has become。the goods will watch40.6％、louis clothes31.8％has become。
· engagement rings
souvenir of engagement diamond ring to women is overwhelming。
for more information about the engagement ring, click here⇒wedding rings, engagement rings
· ukesho
ukesho mark that has been received to ensure the mahr。be prepared to consult with people shop when buying a mahr。
certificate-certificate-family relatives
certificate is the name of the family to family have been living together、relatives to purchase3write the name of relatives within the degrees of consanguinity。let’s prepare together would mahr at the time of purchase also:。
⇒ coal tit of your betrothal／matchmaker／the location of the betrothal
⇒ rules of dress／to do cost-sharing？
⇒ advanced or vocal message of the day of betrothal